My mother the folk artist.

 Posted by on December 5, 2011 at 5:10 pm
Dec 052011
 

It has become quite a family tradition to receive a birthday card from my mother. This is what she sent Husband for his birthday two weeks ago:

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A bit of translation is needed since the card is written in phonetic English, Spanish and Spanglish. She drew herself in front of our apartment door holding a cake. Above the door it says in Spanish “Dear Paul, you know I love very much. Congratulations.” Then in Spanglish she writes again “I love you very [bery] much [mocho]“.

Behind her are her dogs Jimmy (she writes this as Jin) and Havi, her cat Pepe and my former cat Jerry. Next to Jerry she writes in Spanish “the children you abandoned”. The animals are all complaining that I’m not opening the door fast enough because they are hungry and want to get the birthday party started.

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Behind them are her parakeets and a bunch of cockroaches holding balloons. The roaches are a running theme in her cards since our little town is dirty. It’s also a bit of a play on the idea that a town full of Hispanics means a town full of roaches because they emigrate with us. The birds and the roaches are exclaiming that they walked all the way from NJ and are tired and want to cut the cake already. One says to the other, “this gringo is going to be very happy [hapi] when he sees us!”

All around everyone is wishing Paul a very “hapi birsdei” (happy birthday) and that they love him very much. Unfortunately, I didn’t get a card this year but that’s because I am not the favorite like Paul is. That is a direct quote from my mother. Other family members have gotten cards and I keep meaning to organize a Facebook group so we can all scan in our respective cards and have a stab at translating them.

I love that my mom has a quirky sense of humor and made me the weird person that I am.

Is it really December already?!

 Posted by on December 1, 2011 at 4:21 pm
Dec 012011
 

Up until an hour ago, I was blissfully unaware of today’s date. Is it really December 1st? Is Christmas really 24 days away? Yesterday my husband asked me an awful question, “What do you want for Christmas?” The older I’ve gotten, the harder it is to come up with an answer. Perhaps it’s because what I really need are intangible like the ability to just chill out. Or an endless supply of motivation and inspiration! The ability to decide who to lives and dies!

So I’m just here, trying hard not to flip out that Christmas is around the corner and I’m only half way done with my mom’s present and I haven’t started on anything I was planning on making for my nieces and their husbands. This weekend will probably be spent stocking up on interfacing, zippers and other odds and ends. And hopefully decorations for the house. Outside my window it looks like October and it doesn’t feel like Christmas here to me just yet. It’s not very cold and I don’t see many decorations up. Thankfully, this year I have the energy and the ability to remedy that!

I’m going to make this an amazing Christmas for myself, damnit!

Happy Thanksgiving!

 Posted by on November 24, 2011 at 4:40 pm
Nov 242011
 

Happy Thanksgiving to my American readers! In the spirit of the holiday (also known as Husband’s Birthday Eve) I’ve made up a list of things I’m thankful for in no particular order:

* Yarn with a cashmere content. I think it’s the only reason why I keep attempting these stupid sockettes.

* Having a wonderful husband who has stuck by me through thick and thicker. If there was ever a test of the strength of our marriage, cancer was it. He stepped up to the plate and was by my side and never wavered in that. I will always be in his debt for that.

* Have great friends and family who also helped out and stepped up. Some of my former friends did make themselves scarce but that’s OK. The ones who did step up were indispensable and I’m so glad that I know who to call for a laugh or a cry–or both! I was also inundated with emails, postcards and gifts from internet friends. That touched me the most considering I’ve never met most of them nor have I ever spoke on the phone with them!

My family is also my backbone. From visits, to cleaning out my apartment (thanks to my sister Maritza), to boxes of chocolate (my brother knows me well!) and home made cards they helped me so much. I’m also thankful for the kind of mom who just needed to look at me to know what I needed. I am glad that I finally caved and let her fill me with soup nearly 24/7 during chemo. My in laws were also sweet enough to visit and send many cards and phone calls. My mother in law even sent me yarn!

Also, her best friend, Mercy and her husband Cesar were incredibly generous and took me to every single doctor’s appointment since Paul had to work. They might as well be my other mom and dad with how much they helped and suffered through this with us. They are a family that I will always be indebted to. Plus, Mercy crocheted me a nice hat! She’s an amazing crafter and I aspire to be like her one day.

* I am thankful for the internet. It may get my hackles up because people are so often wrong on the internet but it’s provided endless food for though and creativity. Internet, you made me the knitter I am today.

* I am also most thankful for knitting. It keeps me sane and from shanking my friends and family. They should also be thankful for my knitting as well. ;)

Happy Birthday, Marine Corps!

 Posted by on November 10, 2011 at 3:14 pm
Nov 102011
 

Today is the 236th birthday of the United States Marine Corps. Here are a few fun facts about the USMC:

    It was formed on November 10, 1775 and consisted of two battalions called the Continental Marines as a naval infantry.
    Today, the Marine Corps is part of the Department of the Navy. Or as my husband jokingly calls it, the Men’s Department.
    Their mascot is the English Bulldog and their motto is “Semper Fidelis”, always faithful.
    The Marines earned their reputation as “Devil Dogs” and amazing grounds forces during WW1 at the Battle of Belleau Woods in France.
    Some notable Marines include: my husband and my brother…Ok they’re notable to me.

    Famous Marines include:
    Dan Daly, awarded TWO Medal of Honors for two DIFFERENT acts of heroism.
    Opha Mae Johnson, the first officially recognized female Marine.
    Lewis Burwell “Chesty” Puller, the most decorated Marine in history.
    John A. Lejeune, 13th Commandant of the Marine Corps and author of the birthday message that’s read aloud every year.

Tomorrow is Veteran’s Day in the US and Armistace Day in Canada and Europe. No matter where you are in the world, please thank a vet and think about the folks who gave their lives to protect your freedom.

Happy Fourth of July!

 Posted by on July 4, 2011 at 2:01 pm
Jul 042011
 
When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. — That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, — That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security. — Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world [...]

List of grievances

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In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these united Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States, that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. — And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor.

July 4, 1776

Happy Birthday, America!

Happy Father’s Day

 Posted by on June 19, 2011 at 7:06 pm
Jun 192011
 

 

Happy Father’s Day!

The best thing about my dad was his sense of humor. He had a great gift for making up funny songs on the spot or coming up with an obnoxious nickname. But heaven help you if you teased my dad.

 

He was the second youngest and the only boy in his family so he was doubly spoiled. My mom says that his older sisters would have to finish most of the fights that he started.

Their nickname for him was Mosquito because he was such a pest. He once took the dentures out of his sleeping grandfather’s mouth and hid them.

Pop

Besides acting like a royal pain, my father loved music. Mostly Afro-Cuban music like Celia Cruz but he also liked Frank Sinatra. He tolerated Elvis Presley, was rather neutral about the Beatles and generally thought most rock music was noise. We still have a ton of his old LPs, so if you live in northern NJ and want some Spanish music on vinyl contact me! *wink* No seriously, we’d love to give them away to someone who’ll love them as much as my dad did.

His favorite instrument was the trumpet and I think one of the biggest regrets of his life was not really learning how to play. As a result, whenever any of us expressed an interest in playing a musical instrument he jumped at the chance to have us learn. My oldest sister Betty plays the guitar, piano and sings and I can play a little piano and guitar. My nephew Eddy already at 11 years old, has won a few awards in his piano studies and his older brother, Alex, plays a mean guitar. My other nephew Jared has also picked up the guitar. My niece Stephanie also plays the piano. So we’re a rather musical family.

Here’s a picture of my mom: My mother Flora I’ve already talked about my dad twice and I realized that I haven’t posted a picture of her. Isn’t she cute? Mom’s taught me a lot herself. She taught me how to knit, crochet and now sew. She was so proud of me when I made my reversible apron. There’s a lot I can say about my mom, so I may devote a whole post to her sometime soon.